"Stop dating and enabling br%ke girls" - Internet user recounts his experience

An internet user has advised men to stop dating and financially enabling women they consider broke, sharing his recent experience with a woman he met about 10 days ago.

He said he initially approached her after seeing her about to take a bike, and they exchanged numbers before they began talking.

According to him, he was impressed when the woman drove to visit him, brought food and even bought foodstuff after remembering that he liked egusi.

He said the gesture surprised him because they had not been intimate, adding that the experience made him realise that men could meet financially independent women who were capable of taking care of themselves.

The man argued that some women transfer responsibilities that would normally be handled by their parents to their partners, putting financial pressure on men who are also trying to build themselves.

He urged men to stop enabling such relationships, saying there are financially comfortable women who can also contribute to a relationship.

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by Linda Ikeji at 26/08/2026 6:39 PM | Share this Story